Showing posts with label Me. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Me. Show all posts

Thursday, June 26, 2014

things i learnt from the whole 30 . . .


for the month of may sam and i committed to following the whole 30 program.

no grains. no dairy. no sugar. no alcohol. no legumes. for 30 days.

what we did eat, was a lot of meat and veggies. pleanty of eggs. some fruit. some nuts. healthy fats. good quality whole foods.

it's a fairly rigid way of eating, but for 30 days it's pretty achievable. the benefits were well worth it.

when you remove the bread, pasta and rice from your plate, there's a lot more room for veggies. i felt like i was really feeding my body. i felt good.

i ate a lot of food on the whole 30. three cooked meals a day. big huge servings. filling up at meal times put a stop to my all day grazing. (but because i'm still breastfeeding i needed a substantial snack in between meals too)

i spent a lot of time in the kitchen. making everything from scratch. mayo. sauces. bone broth. nut milk. i found a lot of great new recipes and realised there is so much you can still eat within those strict guidelines.

for the most part, i didn't really miss alcohol. a sparkling water with a wedge of lime and a few ice blocks was my substitute. enough to trick my mind that i was having a special drink. most days at least.

i now realise that when i drink wine it's the sulfites in it that make me feel like death the next day, more than the actual wine. i'll steer towards organic wine from now on, when i can.

i thought i loved dairy but it turns out i can live without it. it's like i've lost the taste for it. i'm making my own almond milk now. i'll eat a little cheese and butter here and there, but too much dairy makes my stomach feel sick.

i realised that gluten makes me feel pretty yuck. reading wheat belly a while back had already convinced me i was better off without it. cutting it out for 30 days sealed the deal.

when i eat well, i sleep well. i seemed to have more bounce and less drag. even with all the usual baby related night wakings, i woke up feeling fresh and ready to start the day.

eggs for breakfast is where it's at for me. a cook up in the morning rush is a bit of extra work, but well worth the effort. it keeps me full and fuelled like nothing else can.

i didn't weigh myself for the 30 days. instead i tuned into the other changes going on in my body. i noticed how my foggy head cleared. how my clothes fit better. how my energy levels were steady and carried me through the day.

i'm not sure if it was the absence of sugar or grains or dairy (or maybe all three), but i lost the sticky out belly bloat that usually haunts me. i felt lighter too. even with all the meat i was eating.

i discovered that i love licorice tea. all of my life i've only mildly tolerated herbal teas. this is one i truly enjoy.

i bought a couple of new cookbooks (this one and this one) and found a lot of new recipes to try.

the amount of meat i was eating on the whole 30 felt like too much for me. i think i function best with a few meat free days in my week. i was happy to go back to simple soups and salads for lunch.

since we finished the whole 30 i've been baking a lot of healthy treats from wholefood simply. easy recipes which are generally grain, sugar and dairy free. i can recommend this banana bread recipe. (i make it up as muffins and keep them in the freezer for lunch boxes)

at the end of the month i'd lost 3kgs. that wasn't my main motivation for doing the whole 30, but definitely a bonus!

possibly the biggest thing for me was breaking my deeply ingrained food habits. the sweet something at the end of a meal. the all day grazing. the way i would unconsciously finish off what the kids had left behind. the tired and emotional eating. i feel like i've rebooted that part of my brain.

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when i first heard about the whole 30 i thought it sounded ridiculous and extreme. then after a while i got curious about people's claims that it had changed their life. i'm glad we did it. it has definitely shifted the way we eat and the way we feel. 

Friday, June 6, 2014

reflections on blogging | five years and 500 posts. . .


it was 5 years ago today that i hit publish on my first blog post ~ and by some sweet stroke of serendipity, this is my 500th post.

when i started blogging aila was 18 months old. we were living in the city with a dog called hudson, a cat called patrick and a chook called lucy.

blogging helped me to find me. it let me hone in on my passions. it gave me an opportunity to think and talk about the simple things that made my heart sing.

for a long time i blogged without anyone in my 'real life' knowing.

blogging helped me find the beauty in the world around me. through the lens of my camera and my words, blogging shaped my thoughts and taught me about gratitude.

blogging helped me to find you. it connected me with people all around the world who cared about the same things i did. from chooks to sewing to op-shopping or homebirth. it felt wonderfully affirming to find that tribe.

blogging let me show off the things that i had made to people who cared {and saved my husband from having to pretend that he did}.

when we packed up our city lives and moved to the deep south, my blog came with me, and so did you.

blogging has enabled me to keep a record of the little details of my days that i would have otherwise forgotten.

blogging has given me somewhere to put my photos, so that they are not lost forever in the deep dark depths of my external hard drive.

there were times when i could have happily blogged every day of the week. there were times when i struggled to blog once a month.

most of my blog posts have been written from my bed with a sleeping baby by my side.

sometimes i wonder why i blog. sometimes it feels incredibly narcissistic. often when i'm writing a post i wonder who cares?

mostly though, blogging has been a positive influence in my life. it has become a part of me. i'm not sure it's healthy to feel so attached to something, but i am.

at times i've come very close to bidding farewell to my blog. but right now i feel like i'll be sticking around here for a bit longer.

it still amazes me that hundreds of people pop by each day to read my random musings. they choose to visit this little corner of the internet. a place where i dump pictures and words and discuss the mundane minutiae of my days.

most people that visit this space are from australia. but there are also visits from belgium, bulgaria, brazil, the united states and the united kingdom, canada, spain, new zealand, iran, france, germany, ireland, rwanda. . . all corners of the globe. {hello!}

wherever you are in the world, a big, warm, heartfelt thank you for taking the time to visit. to comment. to email. to link up. to connect in some small way. it really has made the whole experience that much richer.

Tuesday, May 27, 2014

resurfacing . . .


something has shifted. i've felt it in the last week or so. glimpses of goodness. moments of deep to the bone happiness. energy. motivation. patience. the fog has lifted, ever so slightly. i no longer feel like i'm dragging myself through each day. i'm doing more than just surviving. it's a convergence of things. a first birthday. some clean eating. a little bit of sleep. i'm coming up for air. i'm noticing the beauty in the world again. i'm starting to feel like me.

Thursday, August 29, 2013

holding on and letting go . . .








1. flowers picked from the roadside
2. eyes for his dad
3. sun shining down on our little town
4. more mouths to feed
5. five

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sleepless nights roll into busy days. life feels full. the weeks fly by in a blur of nappies and night feeds. lunchboxes and lullabies. washing and wiping. mess and mayhem. it takes me three days to return a phone call. three weeks to write a blog post. i'm truly up to my neck in parenting. 

oscar is approaching four months now. i can feel myself being enveloped in that heavy cloak of fatigue.  i try and cling to the delicious baby details, but i know when i go to retrieve them later, they will mostly be lost in the fog. 

yesterday i found myself googling 'three children chaos.' i don't know what i was hoping to find. answers? help? solace? a smoother path through the storm? in some strange way though, i'm learning to embrace this chaos. the way we ricochet from one crazy moment to the next. then collapse in a heap. sometimes laughing, sometimes crying. how time and time again i find a whole new level of letting go.

life is intensely challenging and wonderful in equal parts. right now i crave personal space, time with my own thoughts, peace and quiet, a few minutes on my own. but i know that in the blink of an eye this chapter will be closed. i'll longingly look back and yearn for the baby sounds and smells and softness that fills my world right now. the funny things elliot says. aila's sweet innocence.

while this tornado continues to spin around me, my focus is on surviving each day. holding on and enjoying the wild ride and finding some space to savour the sweet moments too.    


Tuesday, August 13, 2013

mountain climbing + taking stock . . .





Making : a huge mess in the kitchen
Cooking : pear and ginger muffins from here (amongst other things)
Drinking : lots of pots of tea
Reading: The Divided Heart (once I collect it from the library)
Wanting: some solo time with my girl
Looking: at the rain out the window
Playing: tunes on spotify
Wasting: time in front of screens
Sewing: white linen tea towels
Wishing: for a king size bed
Enjoying: Oscar's first baby chuckles
Waiting: for my new enamel milk pan to arrive
Liking: the idea of a tropical holiday
Wondering: if this rain will ever stop
Loving: the school bus service
Hoping: I don't get the cold my small people have had

Marvelling: at how far Aila's little legs can carry her
Needing: sleep
Smelling: sweet milky baby breath
Wearing: crochet slippers made by my Gran
Following: elliot around with a tissue
Noticing: the first signs of spring
Knowing: I need to get to bed earlier
Thinking: things feel (ever so slightly) more in control this week
Bookmarking: recipes to try
Opening: the mail
Giggling: at Josh Earl's take on skype (thanks Alison)
Feeling: snug between my two sleeping boys
inspired by pip

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{from our house we can see a magnificent mountain range, way off on the horizon. 
on the weekend we climbed to the summit to take in the most amazing views.
these pictures are from the picnic we had afterwards.}

Monday, December 17, 2012

there's something you might like to know . . .


 we're having a baby!

an autumn baby. a little taurus. 

20 weeks down. 20 to go. 

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{I'm getting girl vibes this time}



Wednesday, November 7, 2012

35 laps around the sun...




an early morning treasure hunt. a bunch of flowers. a new camera. handmade cards and creations from my little people. chocolate cake in bed. a trip to the beach with my boys. home for a quick coffee. off again for a heavenly massage. a winery lunch. gorgeous friends and thoughtful gifts. more lovely flowers. a decadent black forest cake {nice one sambo!}. phone calls from favourite people. sunshine all day long {it's been a while}. time on the couch with some new books. early to bed. the best kind of day.  

Monday, March 19, 2012

on quitting sugar


today marks 21 days since i quit sugar. 
they say it takes 21 days to change a habit.
hooray for me!

cutting out sugar has meant none of the white stuff.
no tomato sauce, no muesli, no dried fruit, no lollies, no ice cream, no maple syrup, no chocolate, no juice, no gin & tonics, no cakes or muffins .... and no fruit.

in the place of sweet stuff, i'm having a love affair with fats. 
full fat everything. coconut oil. lashings of butter and cream. chicken skin. 
all guilt free.

my mummy tummy is deflating.
the numbers on the scales are coming down.
i can't tell you how good that feels.

my energy spikes and slumps have gone.
i feel satiated and no longer need to graze all day.
i'm feeling so much healthier.

i think i miss the making of sweet treats 
more than the actual eating.
i like to bake.

on a couple of special occasions i have eaten sugar. 
a taste of the honey from our bees and the apples we harvested. 
i was completely present and mindful and savoured ever mouthful.

i feel like i am no longer addicted to sugar. 
friends have waved numerous sweet temptations under my nose.
i'm honestly not that interested.

i have become aware of how much sugar my small people eat. 
they snack on dried and fresh fruit all day. 
i think i need to tackle this next.

veggies contain sugar,
 some much more than others. 
but i haven't restricted my intake of them at all.

i'm looking forward to reintroducing fruit to my diet.
but no more than a couple of pieces a day.
i think i've missed fruit most of all.

breakfast has required the most rejigging.
i start the day with eggs, spinach and tomatoes (from the backyard) and a slice of sourdough toast. 
this usually keeps me going until lunch time.

i started out being a bit curious about quitting sugar.
now i'm pretty obsessed!
{as my friends and family well know}

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 I've been following Sarah Wilson's I Quit Sugar program.
{If you buy her ebook via this link, i get a little something}



Sunday, January 1, 2012

12 things for 2012. . .





1. early to bed early to rise
learn to love the mornings

2. disconnect, shut down, switch off
free myself from technology regularly

3. open a little hat shop
here in this space

4. build a farmhouse table
from locally sourced timbers

5. say yes more
especially to my people

6. give more, expect less
{still working on last years resolution!}

7. plant an orchard
nurture it & watch it grow

8. explore more
make the most of where we live

9. walk, swim, stretch
find time to move in some way every day

10. become expert beekeepers
{we brought home our new bees yesterday)

11. meal plan regularly
make the most of local seasonal produce

12. count my blessings
there's so much to be grateful for

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wishing you
an extraordinary, excellent & abundant
2012

{pictures of sam & his mum
checking on the bees at the olive grove}

Monday, December 12, 2011

good things. . .



a tower of cake tins from
katie at grow cook sew*

some lotions and potions from
georgi at a pastiche

an organic cotton change mat cover
from kylie at eco nino

it looks like christmas came early
for me this year!

thank you for these gorgeous gifts
lovely ladies of the interwebs

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* after a few emails back and forth
katie and i discovered that our husbands
were friends in primary school!

Saturday, November 12, 2011

six years ago. . .


i jumped aboard
a little wooden boat
and went to meet my love
on the grassy banks of the swan river
where we said i do

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happy anniversary my darling
xo


pictures by lauren waye

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

my birthday was. . .


up early with the little people. a treasure hunt. a gentle morning. yoga, coffee, nail painting & mooching. a winery lunch with friends. sparkling shiraz. fresh flowers. delicious decadent chocolate cake baked by my love. gorgeous gifts galore. phone calls from across the globe. an evening amble. walnut & broccoli lasagne baked by a friend. a nice bottle of red. a table cloth & the good china. wind, rain & sunshine. my 34th. yesterday. just lovely.

Saturday, April 16, 2011

gift...



my beloved gave me the sweetest gift of all last night.
sleep.
with head and heart full of mother's guilt,
i retreated to the far end of the house.
left my boys to work it out on their own.
with daddy's twinkle twinkle little star
in place of mummy's boob,
they survived just fine.
with not too much fuss at all, really.
{naturally the three year old
found her way into my bed,
and i spent a good part of the night
listening out for my baby}
but today i caught the slightest glimpse of me.
like the fog had lifted, ever so slightly.
and guess what?
there's talk of doing it again tonight.

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Monday, January 3, 2011

the year that was . . .


in 2010 i moved to a little town by the sea. grew a human. drank lots of tea. became a mac convert. experienced an empowering home birth. walked on the beach. grew some veggies. discovered and relished in the steiner rhythm. got back to nature. found joy in the simple stuff. was uplifted by new friends. swam in the sea. walked in the forrest. dreamed and sketched up house plans. watched in wonderment as my babies grew. delighted in my husband's new work arrangements. moved house twice. wondered what i'd do without my mum. enjoyed being a country girl again. found my happy place.

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Sunday, November 7, 2010

once upon a time. . .


a handsome boy
sat all alone
by the fireplace
at a 21st birthday party

the birthday girl
full of good cheer
spied that handsome boy
sitting all alone

the birthday girl
approached the handsome boy
and planted a sweet kiss on him

...and they lived happily ever after

the end.

(that was 12 years ago today
and
this is the abridged version of the tale!)

xo

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

home and away. . .


the daddy-o has gone to the big smoke
and the little one has gone with

so it's just the little man and me
for a couple of days

we're enjoying some one-on-one time
then sweet solitude while he sleeps

with the crazy busy noisy ones away
the house is eerily quiet
(and very tidy)

we miss you guys xo

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Wednesday, October 20, 2010

moments. . .

they creep up on you when you least expect it

when you're hanging out the washing
she's splashing in the paddle pool
he's on a blanket kicking his legs

moments of pure simple joy

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Tuesday, October 19, 2010

angels and demons. . .

she looks like an angel
and she usually is
but life with a nearly three year old
is certainly not without its challenges

this week i attended the positive parenting program
a lot of it is common sense -
some of the strategies I'll use
some are not for us

in all though, I'm feeling rather inspired
empowered and super-mum-like
. . . we're back on track
and enjoying each others company
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Monday, May 10, 2010

just so you know. . .





People who visit here, often
comment on how idyllic our life seems,
and in many ways it is wonderful.

...but I do live in the real world.

Tea With Lucy is my happy place.
It's where I focus on what brings me joy.
Show gratitude for all the blessings.

In that way it's changed my life,
helped shaped the way I look at my world.

The messy, maddening and mundane do exist,
but you won't find them here.

...just so you know.


(This post was inspired
by Jodi.
Weaver of wise and wonderful words!)


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Tuesday, October 13, 2009

pretty. . .


The postman came with fun mail yesterday.

All the way from the US of A.

I don't wear much jewellery day-to-day, but I can see this will become a permanent fixture.

Perfect for everyday.

Keeps my people close to my heart.

All of
Lisa Leonard's jewellery is just my style.
Simple, sweet and silver.

She also has a beautiful blog.

Go see!

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